Books That Radically Transformed My Life
Reading is one of the things that brings me the most joy in life.
Reading also happens to be one of the most transformational growth-inducing activities I do daily.
I've been thinking about putting together a list of books that have radically transformed my life for the better for a long time.
I finally realized that I may as well start because I will never be done. And I can always come back & update this as I see fit.
Special note (updated 12/26/2020): This is a living-resource that I will continuously curate so don't feel the need to go through all of these as fast as possible. Just pick one book that catches your mind's-eye, take your time with it and come back here for the next one when you're ready!
So, without further ado, here are...
Books That Have Radically Alchemized (Transformed) My Life:
Creativity
The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path To Higher Creativity by Julia Cameron
Julia Cameron is one of my biggest mentors. This book was groundbreaking & truly life-changing. It unleashed me as an artist, creative & writer. It taught me to fall in love with journaling--one of the most empowering transformational tools I have in my repertoire. It also linked creativity as a pathway for spiritual communion. This paradigm radically alchemized my life in infinite ways.
The Icarus Deception: How High Will You Fly? by Seth Goden
Seth Goden is a brilliant writer & thinker. This book unbound me from own creative suppression. It gave me permission to create & share and naturally allow an audience to form around my creative work.
Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing & Life by Anne Lamott
Anne Lamott is one of my favorite writers. This book makes me laugh, cry, reel with delight, soar in intellectual & emotional brilliance & so much more. Her writing makes me desperately want to write. Inspiring and great life advice even if one has no interest in writing.
Daily Rituals: How Artists Work by Mason Currey
Mason Currey showed me that art & creativity and the work that goes into producing it comes in all shapes, forms, sizes, colors, shades & walks-of-life. There is no one right way. There is a way that works for you. Our job is to find & harness our unique ways that empower our personal creative process.
Steal Like An Artist: 10 Things No One Told You About Being Creative by Austin Kleon
This book gave me permission to "steal" the work of others, combine it with other works in all fields & topics, and alchemize it all together to make it my own. Short. Fun. Powerful. Read this.
Show Your Work! by Austin Kleon
Austin Kleon taught me that it is not only okay but actually an integral part of the creative process to show your work even as your are developing it (aka before it's "done"). He empowered me to stop hiding my vulnerability & instead use it as a strength & pathway forward.
Human Potential & Personal Development
Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins
First read this as a teenager. Radically transformed my life for the better. Went from loaner & playground bully to powerful social force for achievement as well as leader in all areas of life (school, sports, family, etc). It truly unlocked my potential. Aided me getting to Stanford University & beyond. Re-reading again in my 30s and diligently studying & applying. Having same effect it did when I was teenager.
Unlimited Power by Tony Robbins
Same case as above with Awaken The Giant Within.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons In Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey
Foundational. We are our habits. Everyone should read. Also recommend the teenager version written by the author's son.
Willpower by Roy F. Baumeister & John Tierney
This book gave me an obsession with habits. Game-changer. Amazing parenting advice as well.
Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin
One of my favorite books on habits & optimal conscious habit-design for your unique temperament.
The Peaceful Warrior: A Book That Changes Lives by Dan Millman
Dan Millman and this book made me realize & finally "see" the woman of my dreams. For this I will be forever deeply grateful. It also happens to be a life-changing book in many other ways.
The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere & Join The New Rich by Tim Ferriss
I read this when it first came out in 2007. I instantly thought to myself "Finally! I understand who I want to become!" My vision was similar to Tim Ferriss with the human potential & positive transformation leadership, but with my own alchemical fitness & fashion-forward spiritual-hipster twist! Ten years later I am finally living that vision. Forever my deepest gratitude to you, Tim Ferriss for helping me understand, see & live my own personal vision.
Psycho-Cybernetics Maxwell Waltz
Read this at a super young age (thanks Dad!). Awesome book about harnessing your subconscious & building self-esteem.
THe subtle art of not giving a f*uck by Mark Manson
This book is seriously awesome at teaching one and reminding one to not be so attached to expectations, outcomes, and life in general. In truth, it’s a book about Buddhism hidden within the musings & insight of a modern American man (Mark Manson) who is both a brilliant writer and incredibly hilarious. He makes learning about Buddhism super fun. Whenever I find myself taking my life or any part of it too seriously I reflect on this book and it empowers me to get back into the Life Alchemist Mindset.
Mindset: The New Psychology Of Success by Carol S. Dweck
For a "recovering-perfectionist" like myself this book was life-transforming. I recommend this book to all students (those in formal schooling like high-school & college as well a life-students) and anyone who has kids or ever wants to have kids. This book teaches you how to learn & grow. It teaches you how to cultivate a learning/growth-mindset in your children. Powerful stuff.
Grit: The Power of Passion & Perseverance by Angela Duckworth
This book gifted me with one of my core-values: grit (defined as passion & perseverance). A great companion to Mindset (above).
The Obstacle Is The Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials Into Triumph by Ryan Holiday
Ryan Holiday taught me to "follow the process, not the prize." This led me to fall in love with the journey of writing, blogging, business-building, etc. It is also an essential book to pick-up & re-read whenever one is feeling blocked by an obstacle.
A Guide To The Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy by William B. Irvine
A practical guide to the life philosophy of Stoicism and how to apply it in our modern world. The amount of joy I've experienced on a regular basis after reading this book & incorporating the lessons within it has been nothing short of AMAZING! If you read nothing else, just read the part about Negative Visualization. It will change your life for the better!
The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful + Practical Guide To Creating Success On Your Own Terms by Danielle LaPorte
This book really helped me get clear on what success really deeply means to me personally (versus being lost to yourself by defining success on other people’s/society’s terms). Great book that leads one to greater Self-Knowledge which is crucial to living a life worth living for!
High Performance Habits by Brendon Burchard
I love habits and this book is incredibly well thought out & comprehensive in regards to tying together several major habits to truly create a life worth living for. Based on this book & it’s companion High Performance Planner I actually designed a good portion of my personal Alchemize Life Planner that I use daily/weekly to plan & empower my life.
Money
Mr. Money Mustache Blog
While not a book if you read the blog from start to finish (which I’ve done) & take action on your learnings you will be supercharged to achieve Financial Independence. It may be too intense or have too much of frugal bent for some, but this was the blog & the man that truly inspired me to get my shit together & pursue Financial Independence with great passion & vigor. To be specific, The Shockingly Simple Math Behind Early Retirement article was THE article that blew my mind & got me truly started down the path to FI.
The Simple Path to Wealth by JL Collins
In my humble opinion the best book to read to get started on investing. All you really need to know to get started and achieve Financial Independence. You can also read JL Collins Stock Series on his blog which contains the same information.
Financial Freedom by Grant Sabatier
I wish I would have read this book in my 20s. So many awesome strategies to grow wealth & achieve Financial Independence.
Quit Like a Millionaire by Kristy Shen & Bryce Leung
Great story and great tips & strategies for achieving Financial Independence.
Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Probably one of the most timeless & popular success books ever written. There is a reason it's on so many incredibly successful people's must-read book-lists.
The Master-Key To Riches by Napoleon Hill
This is a lesser known gem by Napoleon Hill. Short & straightforward, yet you could study it daily for the rest of your life.
Creating Money: Attracting Abundance by Sanaya Roman & Duane Packer
This book finally gave me the spiritual-connection to money that I had been seeking for so long.
Healing, Intuition & Spiritual
You Can Heal Your Life by Louise L. Hay
If I could only give others one book for the rest of my life this would probably be it. It taught me to truly love myself. Get the gift addition (I swear the artistic & colorful pictures empower the healing process).
Prayers to the great creator by Julia cameron
This is a book of prayers & declarations for a meaningful life. My Spirit is stirred just about every time I pick up this book & read from it aloud or in my head.
The Four-Fold Way: Walking The Paths Of The Warrior, Teacher, Healer & Visionary by Angeles Arrien
Life-changing tools & easy-to-read guidebook on harnessing & building within these four archetypes (warrior, teacher, healer & visionary). I grew up with this book thanks to my Mom. It holds a special place in my heart.
The Yamas & Niyamas: Exploring Yoga's Ethical Practice by Deborah Adele
Incredibly applicable way to live the philosophy of Yoga in modern-life. Super easy & fun read too.
Voyager Tarot: Way of The Great Oracle by James Wanless (plus Voyager Tarot Deck)
I've been practicing Tarot since 2009 to cultivate my own intuition & build deep self-knowledge. This is my favorite Tarot Deck & its in-depth companion guide.
The Tarot Handbook: Practical Applications of Ancient Visual Symbols by Angeles Arrien (plus Thoth Tarot Deck)
This is my favorite book on Tarot which is based on Aleister Crowley's Thoth Deck, my other favorite Tarot deck.
Animal Spirit Guides: An Easy-to-Use Handbook For Identifying & Understanding Your Power Animals & Animal Spirit Helpers by Steven D. Farmer Ph.D.
Spiritual Hipster incarnate. Yes I am! I traverse this magical world with my pack of Power Animals by my side. My family & friends call me "Dragon" and there is very deep meaning behind this. Want to discover your own power animal and/or develop your own totem animal pack? Read this book.
The Book Of Stones: Who They Are & What They Teach by Robert Simmons & Naisha Ashian
A key part of being a Spiritual Hipster is working with gemstones. I've studied this book in-depth for years and know I will constantly go back to it for the rest of my life. Check it out if you've ever felt the energetic call of the enigmatic crystal-allies.
Women Food & God: An Unexpected Path To Almost Anything by Geneen Roth
For much of my life I abused food like a drug. As a result I had an incredibly damaging relationship with both food & my body. This book was an integral part of the healing process. It was written for women, but if you have any food-issues this book will hit-home.
Awakening Spirits: A Native American Path To Inner Peace, Healing & Spiritual Growth by Tom Brown, Jr.
This book inspired me to go on a Vision Quest -- one of the most powerful transformational experiences I've ever undergone. The experience of the quest still continues to unfold its awesome power in my life every day. It also includes the teaching of a very powerful & easy-to-do meditation.
The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer
Spiritual concepts broken down in such an easy & empowering way that almost anyone will be able to easily understand & begin to implement in their life. The book is powerful & transcendent. Read it if you’re ready to deepen your spiritual life.
Fiction, Fantasy & Sci-Fi
The Wheel of Time by Robert Jordan
My favorite Fantasy series of all time. Bar none.
The Inheritance Cycle by Christopher Paolini
My favorite Dragon-themed fantasy series. Dragon is my main power animal so this series holds a special place in my heart. There are also Elves. Another magical soft-spot of mine.
The Kingkiller Chronicle by Patrick Rothfuss
Probably my second favorite fantasy series. It's not finished yet (only two books so far).
Redwall by Brian Jacques
This was the fantasy book that started my lifelong love-affair with fantasy (my favorite form of pleasure reading). I still vividly remember reading this during a childhood multi-day river-rafting/camping trip.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
This book taught me to trust the journey and process even when what I am currently doing in life doesn't seem to be leading me where I am supposed to go. It is, it's just in disguise patiently waiting for me to understand, become aware & embrace the journey.
Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card
My favorite Sci-Fi book and the book that caused me to fall in love with Sci-Fi. Ender's Shadow is just as good. I like most whichever I've most recently read.
Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling
I made fun of my mom & younger brother for about a year for reading "children's books" (how I ignorantly categorized the Harry Potter books). Then I finally began one and I was hooked. Read the first 3-4 books in about a week. That's how good it was. It also happens to be one of the few fiction series I've read in entirety more than once.
And that's it! For now... 🤓 📚 🙌🏼
Do you have any books that radically changed your life that are not on this list? If so, please share! Leave me a comment (scroll all the way down), email me, or send me a tweet with your suggestion! 🙏🏼
I am always on the lookout for Life-Alchemizing books and I would love to add your favorite to this list after falling in love with it myself!
Your favorite Life Alchemist,
